Is Happiness Your Organisation’s Untapped Superpower?

A Chief Executive once said to me ‘I don’t believe in happiness at work’ and I thought ‘that’s a shame because happiness truly can be a superpower’.

On average, people spend 3,515 days at work which is about ⅓ of your life. Imagine if those days are miserable. That creates a lot of stress and unhappiness which impacts everything in your life such as relationships with friends and family. We’ve probably all had those jobs where we have to drag ourselves into work and a day feels like a lifetime in itself.

Now, imagine creating a workplace where people are happy. Just writing about it, I can feel my vibration lift to an energy that allows success and achievement. So, what if true happiness at work is the key to long term success?

The fact is, there are two types of happiness and the first one, hedonic happiness is the type that is very short lived.It’s the kind you get from a party. Like a caffeine or sugar boost, it picks you up and throws you back down fairly quickly. It’s the dopamine hit you get from a new email or a LinkedIn notification. It’s pretty meaningless and about instant gratification. We all feel it because it’s built into modern workplace tools with a constant influx of information.

Eudaemonic happiness is the type we need to strive for in all parts of life and has very high value in the workplace. It’s the kind of happiness that lasts. It’s about satisfaction and fulfilment. It’s the happiness we feel when we are connected to our purpose. It’s the type that sustains and keeps us going.

I’m sure we have all heard the saying ‘find a job you love and you will never have to work a day in your life’. What I say to my teams is ‘I appreciate that work will never be your top choice of how to spend your time when compared with family or a sunny beer garden, but how can I make it the second best place to be?’.

I want to be happy at work and enjoy my time and I want everyone else to have that too. My best workplaces have felt like home and I have been equally happy spending my time there.

The evidence is clear that happy people achieve more. They are positive, optimistic and believe in themselves and each other. Gallup’s 2024 report found that happier employees are up to 17% more productive. 

Happy employees are more likely to be engaged in their work, feel a sense of purpose and are motivated to go the extra mile.  They have better ideas, offer a better service and have high levels of resilience.

What should leaders aim for in boosting happiness at work?

  1. Connect people to purpose – when people understand their role in delivering the vision and are clear about the difference they are making, they will be more satisfied and motivated.
  2. Inspire growth – learning is key to motivation and boosts resilience. Consider how you can provide opportunities for learning and inspiration for your teams.
  3. Create a sense of belonging – that feeling of home that I described comes from a deep sense of inclusion and belonging. Cultivate that and you will be on the path to happiness at work. 

The fact of the matter is that the CEO who didn’t believe in happiness, wasn’t happy himself. It limited performance in the organisation and led to a high turnover of colleagues.  If he had embraced happiness, I think he would have been more comfortable with his own vulnerability and created an environment where colleagues could try new things, laugh in the face of failure and really appreciate success.

Imagine how your workplace could thrive if happiness became a priority. Give it a try and let us know how you get on.

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How to cope with stress in 5 easy steps

Today, my colleague Max experienced a bit of a travel disaster which led to high levels of stress which impacted the rest of her day.  It was already going to be a difficult one with tight timescales to meet but missing a train when you are meant to be interviewing people creates the kind of problems we would all like to be without.

This is how Max’s day started…

She had the plan all worked out.  Get up at 6.30am, get self ready, get the children up and ready, grab Weetabix for children’s breakfast, leave the house at 7.35am, drop children at granny’s house with aforementioned cereal supplies, leave granny’s at 7.50am and head to the station with plenty of time to make the 8.55am train to north Wales.

Things were going well. All was on track. Until…

8.15am – traffic begins to slowdown.  Not to worry.  Plenty of time.

8.23am – traffic comes to a standstill.  It’s ok.  Don’t panic, I can still make it.

8.30am – the realisation sets in that it is going to be a real struggle to get to the station in time.

By this point, every light is red, the counter is moving ever closer to the 8.55am departure time and the usually helpful notifications were coming through frequently telling her how little time was left until the train’s departure.

By the time Max was able to park, there were just 12 minutes to go and still an 8 minute walk to get to the station and a ticket to collect. Still thinking that by some miracle, she might be able to get that train, she ran as fast as she could to the station, dragging a suitcase and rucksack behind her.

Of course, nothing went smoothly at the station either and she finally reached the platform to see the train pull away.

So what did she do to manage her stress throughout this situation that might help when living through your own nightmare morning?

1)      Breathe – the first thing to do when you feel stressed is to breathe.  Your heart rate increases in these situations and you feel hot under the collar so if you can get your breathing under control, you can get the situation under control also.

2)      Plan for the worst but hope for the best – throughout the whole time, Max was hopeful that she would make it and did everything she could to get there in time.  However, in the back of her mind, she was thinking ‘what is the next best thing if the current plan doesn’t work out?’.

3)      Take stock and get some perspective – yes, she really wanted to be on the train and support colleagues with the interviews but if she didn’t make it, others could manage or she might be able to rearrange the times and get the next train instead.

4)      Get support – technology means that your support network is never far away so Max sent a what’s app message to her family who referred her to point 1 – breathe (it really is number 1 for a reason!).  She then texted her colleagues who also told her not to worry.

5)      Be thankful – the morning didn’t go well but there are still things to be grateful for such as the health app which sent another notification saying she had done 12 minutes of cardio.

Does this resonate with you? What are your tips for dealing with stressful situations? Share them in the comments below.

 

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